Hi!! I'm Dr. Shawdy!

I'm a physician, author, and ego whisperer. My greatest passion is learning to understand and harness the power of word and thought.

I create systems out of cognitive concepts that allow for the emotional growth necessary to optimize your mindset, honor your intuition, and feel good in your experience.

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Real + perceived unmet childhood needs impact ego development.

Your personal ego type influences your perception of reality + the way you choose to show up in the world. By understanding your ego type + supporting yourself through deep, positive introspection, you may choose the perspective that allows for the effortless, playful embodiment of your highest potential.

love your ego to experience rapid emotional growth

Learn how to navigate through the 6 layers of the ego in order to lead with your conscious self and live in alignment with your highest good. Our mini courses were developed to enable you to playfully explore and engage each ego type so that you may disarm your ego and streamline awareness.

Your ego is a protective shield.

The ego consists of six layers, represented here by six ego types. Every ego is comprised of all 6 layers of the ego. Each ego, however, maintains a different ratio of each of these 6 layers.

  • Type 1 | Comfort Seeker

    ❤️‍🩹 CORE WOUND: fear of abandonment

    ❤️‍🔥 TRIGGER: solitude

    CORE STRENGTH: empathy

  • Type 2 | Esteem Seeker

    ❤️‍🩹 CORE WOUND: fear of inadequacy

    ❤️‍🔥 TRIGGER: criticism

    CORE STRENGTH: ambition

  • Type 3 | Purpose Seeker

    ❤️‍🩹 CORE WOUND: fear of dissatisfaction

    ❤️‍🔥 TRIGGER: monotony
    CORE STRENGTH: ingenuity

  • Type 4 | Acceptance Seeker

    ❤️‍🩹 CORE WOUND: fear of loneliness

    ❤️‍🔥 TRIGGER: socialization

    CORE STRENGTH: integrity

  • Type 5 | Control Seeker

    ❤️‍🩹 CORE WOUND: fear of failure

    ❤️‍🔥 TRIGGER: uncertainty

    CORE STRENGTH: insight

  • Type 6 | Security Seeker

    ❤️‍🩹 CORE WOUND: fear of judgment

    ❤️‍🔥 TRIGGER: conflict

    CORE STRENGTH: reliability


Within the psyche, the ego is the mediator of consciousness and strives to ensure your survival. The ego develops in order to protect you from emotions you may have felt powerless against as a child. Knowing your primary ego type equips you with the knowledge necessary to streamline awareness and begin living more authentically!


Take the free test to determine your ego type and instantly download our Emotional Growthbook to explore what you can do to streamline awareness and live more in alignment with your highest potential.

  • explore.

    learn about the intricacies of your ego type, including triggers, vulnerabilities, and strengths.

  • reflect.

    navigate your subsconscious with reflective prompts curated to deactivate your ego, placing you in the driver's seat of your consciousness.

  • engage.

    discover actionable steps you may take towards disarming your ego so that you may begin living more authentically and with loving awareness.

  • expand.

    put the techniques you learn into practice and live more in alignment with your highest potential.

Ready to fully love and disarm your ego? Get the mini-course for your ego type!